A Minneapolite's Life

Diary of a not so mad black woman...in fact I feel that I'm fairly pleasant.
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1.~If it feels wrong do not do it.

2.~Say exactly what you mean.

3.~Trust your instincts.

4.~Never speak bad about yourself.

5.~Never give up on your dreams.

6.~Do not be afraid to say “No”.

7.~Do not be afraid to say “Yes”.

8.~Be kind to yourself.

9.~Let go of what you can’t control.

10.~Stay away from drama and negativity as much as possible.

Smile as much as you can, accept yourself, love your self just the way you are!  ♥ ♥

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BLACK MUSIC in studio

Peak Blackness! Genius.

#tbt right after doing one of the coolest/dumbest things I’ve ever done - jumping out a plane. Skydiving adventures with Sheng!




Ladies and gentlemen, this is what social anxiety feels like.

IMPORTANT CHARACTER IS IMPORTANT. Never has Disney produced such a realistic character, female, male, villain or princess, ever before. This is a woman who we watched grow up completely suppressing her natural gifts and true self. How many of us have had to hide things? Our love of dance from our overly macho dad? Or homosexuality from right-winged parents? A love of the arts because our families want us to have “real jobs”? Our ADHD, dyslexia, or other “disabilities” because it didn’t fit into traditional learning environments? How about the part where she felt completely an under anxiety her entire life to the point where her interactions with other humans were affected determinately? How many times have we all been under so much constant stress that we feel like this nice snow storm is battering around inside you? And let’s not forget her chronic depression, a side affect of her crippling anxiety and years of self denial. Elsa is literally every single teenager who ever existed and she is so incredibly real beecause she reacts selfishly, she reacts rashly, she reacts illogically, because that’s what real human people do. They go through hell and they fuck up. But they’re truly good people at heart who want love and freedom just like everyone else, the road is just harder to get there. But it makes the end all worth while. 

And the most important part in all of this? The world is going nuts for Elsa. Everyday I see little girls running around the Magic Kingdom dressed as her, carrying her dolls, wearing her shirts, standing in line 5 hours just to meet her. They’re going to grow up worshiping her and looking up to her and singing Let it Go at the top of their lungs. And they’re going to make the world a better place because she exists. This is a character who is going to live forever because Disney let her be real and flawed and incredibly human. Elsa is the greatest creative achievement in Disney history, hands fucking down.  

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This is how kids reacted when they were shown same-sex marriage proposal videos. Kids these days. 

"how will we explain homosexuality to our children" I think maybe they should explain it to you


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Follow this link to find a short clip and analysis that considers intersections of privilege and colonialism.

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this is my favorite picture of her from tonight. she looks a gorgeous young woman, anticipating being presented at a ball.you go, Cinderella. go get it.


this is my favorite picture of her from tonight. she looks a gorgeous young woman, anticipating being presented at a ball.

you go, Cinderella. go get it.

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During the SuperBowl, the Coca-Cola Company aired a commercial to promote their brand as every other mega corporation who has a few million dollars to blow on a 30 to 60 seconds of television airtime. It was a nice commercial titled “It’s Beautiful” in which American people did American things…



Dear Jen,

Yes, this is an open letter to you, Jen Polachek, writer of this ridiculous essay: It Happened To Me: There Are No Black People In My Yoga Classes And I’m Suddenly Feeling Uncomfortable With It. Which—upon reading—to anyone with any kind of sense will understand to really…